french leave
Noun: * An abrupt and unannounced departure (without saying farewell): The act of leaving a place, especially a social gathering or one's place of employment, without permission or without informing the host or supervisor.
This term is used to describe a departure that is considered rude, inconsiderate, or irresponsible because it is done secretly or without notice. It often implies a desire to avoid a formal goodbye, an awkward situation, or the consequences of asking for permission to leave.
- Noun:
- He grew tired of the party and decided to take French leave.
- The soldier was reprimanded for taking French leave from the barracks.
- She didn't want to disturb the meeting, so she took French leave.
- "to take French leave": This is the standard verb phrase used with the noun. It means to depart in the manner described.
- Several guests had already taken French leave by the time the host began his speech.
The term "French leave" originated in the 18th century, reflecting a period of Anglo-French rivalry. It was based on a perceived French custom of leaving a social event without formally thanking the host. A corresponding term, "filer à l'anglaise" (to leave in the English style), exists in French, showing the mutual nature of such stereotypes. Modern usage of the term is often considered dated or potentially offensive due to its national stereotyping.
- Disappearance: The act of vanishing or going away, often suddenly.
- Absconding: Leaving hurriedly and secretly, typically to avoid detection or arrest.
- Slip away: To leave quietly and unobtrusively.
- Formal farewell: A polite and announced departure.
- Official leave: Authorized absence, especially from duty.
- To slip out/away: To leave quietly without being noticed.
- I'm going to try to slip out before the presentation ends.
- To duck out: To leave a place quickly or secretly.
- He ducked out of the meeting to take a phone call.
- an abrupt and unannounced departure (without saying farewell)